Explore the unpredictable journey of lazydaisy, a young mommy of 4. Recently blessed with a twin girl and have two little heroes. Share her thoughts, ups and downs in raising her bundle of joys :)
Yesterday was indeed a special day for you. I have to tell you that mummy is a bit worried if you would have stage-fright but you prove me wrong, sweetheart. I am very very proud of you. All this while I thought you were still "my baby" but yesterday I've realized that you have grown up so fast. Time flies really fast.
I could tell you were very excited. Even mummy is looking forward to it too. I was so worried I would be back late due to traffic jam because (of that selfish ppl :BERSIH rusuhan). You even "emphasis" on the timing by saying "Teacher said I have to be there by 6.30. hee hee sorry sayang we arrived quite late.
The moment I saw you on stage, I was so proud of you. You waved and even winked at mummy to show how much you are enjoying your performance with your friends. You even show thumbs up sign before starting your show. I am so proud of you, my little hero.
I'm sure the time you spend practicing for your performance was all worth it. Thumbs up to your teachers too for the good work. You remember your dance move perfectly and you did it with all your heart. Bersemangat betul, hero ku perform lagu merdeka :)
The moment you finished your performance, I could see you hi-five with your friends. You sure did, have a great time isn't it danial ?
You will still go to the same school next year. I am happy knowing that you are enjoying your school very much. Most importantly you are learning and having a great time with your friends.
I am 21++ weeks now.
Been Having terrible backpain. It is too soon isnt't it ? but I guess maybe because of the twins or am I getting older ???. Adam is getting clingy than ever. My backpain will get worse everytime after I carry him. Aduiii, siksa betul la.
Went for my first 3d/4d scan yesterday. I was so looking forward about it.
Simply A-M-A-Z-I-N-G. Told hubby million times that I want him to be there as well since he missed my last check up. For the next few months, the maternity belt is my life saviour.
Pray hard everything will be okay.
Oh god, 20++ weeks to go....if everything goes well.
Please pray for us.
Will update in a short while (if I have time) on the outcome of check up of the twins pregnancy. :)
Danial is currently going to Sm@rt Re@der near my house area.
The school is okay, he loves it very much, in fact whenever he was absent from school he is always looking forward to go again.
The only thing that the school is lack is Isl@mic basic studies, you know things like perform solat, iqra' and recite doa. I know I should teach him myself (mommy is very busy at the moment) but I feel if he goes to Islamic school then he will be exposed and easier for me to brush up later...
But I seriously do not want to be a kiasu mommy, where I transfer my son to other school just because I think it is GOOD for him. (I have yet to see the new islamic centre myself anyway). I want him to be happy and I know that being happy for danial is to stick to the current school since he has his own friends, he loves the environment over there, and the teachers are okay too.
One of the alternative is to get ustad/ustazah to come over to my house and teach him maybe weekly or 2/3 times a week.
Please do give your feedback mommies. What should I do ?
Should I just stick to the current school or change him to the islamic centre one ?
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Halo,
How are you guys doing ?
Me, well something bad happen to our family.
Well the incident is over right now.
Everyone is safe, the kids are ok although adam seems to be very clingy these days. Dunno if he knows he is going to be a big brother soon or he is being traumatic after the incident.
Well if I were to "share the real stories" it will be kinda scary to all of you.
Even I am still recovering being traumatic with the whole thing.
Life has to goes on.
I pray and hope the crazy incident will not happen again and being grateful to Allah despite these craziness we went through all our family members are okay.
Thats the most important thing.
*on the other hand, i sudah ketinggalan banyak alerts, will catch up bile ada time*
I have to attend a conference next week somewhere up north.
First time leaving the kids due to work.
Not an easy one for me.
With this pregnancy hormone, I will be missing them like crazy, kang banjir pulak kat sana.
Saya sudah mula kerja hari ni.
Baru raya ke-6.
Tapi yang syoknye jalan clear betul tadi. Padahal keluar lambat.
Heaven betul Kalau hari hari boleh keluar lambat tapi sampai ofis awal.
Mimpi jela, sebab by Monday next week gerenti orang sume dah start keje balik
Our raya meriah tak meriah jugak la.
The kids behave, danial yg fussy makan as usual tak appreciate sangat "menu special" raya ni.
This year is my turn beraya so kiteorang raya di KL dulu.
Malam first raya kiteorang balik Penang.
Sayu je dengar mak mentua kata diaorang sunyi raya di KL sebab anak menantu sume tak balik raya.
Well kiteorang raya di KL dulu remember.
Agaknya cucu-cucu yg kecoh ni la pengubat rindu.
By monday rumah mak mentua dah jadi nursery.
But I guess my mother in law prefers that way.
Hee hee dari rumah yg sunyi sepi.
Danial enjoy betul main dengan cousin dia sampai tak ingat nak makan, minum.
Adam in his jovial mood, as long as his routine makan tido sume cukup.
Sesekali dia akan mengamok bile time nak tido, biasa la tu. Kdg-kdg bagi stress dekat mommy jugak :P
Will post raya pictures soon.
Selamat Hari Raya, Maaf Zahir Batin
The newly become SAHM sis famygirl tagged me for this 5 thingy. So here goes :-
5 things in my bag :
1. my purse.
2. make up - nothing much really hee hee lipstick and compact powder
3. hand phone
4. lots of banking books/receipt/bank account stuff
5. sunglasses
5 things in my purse:
1. a photo card of me and hubby. there is also ET picture with us. ni masa baru
kawin dulu pegi jalan aka honeymoon
2. credit cards, atm cards, coins, receipts
3. some money kalau ada
4. mph card, tesco card, other discount card
5. my medical appointment card
5 favourite things in my bedroom:
1. the walk-in-wardrobe
2. the second decoder
3. kids running around the walk in wardrobe or playing hide and seek
4. running away from adam (heheh pantang nampak mommy budak ni mesti nak berkepit)
5. the king size bed
5 things I would like to do:
1. its been quite a while since mommy-danial art and crafty session. must do this
but poor mommy is always tak larat off late
2. try to be an organised wifey and mommy
3. to be a good muslimah
4. be financially secured so that can follow sis famy's footsteps. *bule ke ni ?*
5 go to NZ, visit my dear sisters and at the same time holidaying with my
family. heaven tu
5 things I'm doing now:
1. thinking *bile nak habis tag ni*
2. make sure everything pending for work today is done before the meeting with
customer
3. blog hop, read my alerts
4. update calendar, *lotus notes sucks*
5. missing hubby (he is away this weekends)
I guess everybody have done this isn't it ? In case you haven't you are tag to do this :)
Ummikusayang (UKS) Mommies are simply the best.
Despite not knowing each other personally, they give you the best advice ever, even encourage and inspire me indirectly.
I've sent an email for help.
And most of the replies I got really helped me out to straight my mind.
I am so glad I am one of their members and in future I hope I can help the mommies when the right time comes.
In case if you miss me, or wondering about me (if there is any) hee hee I am doing great Alhamdullilah.
I have great news to share with all of you but am not "brave enough" to say it out loud. But good news to my shelfari's friends you can look for clues.
The clue is check on my "Wish List Books" and you'll get what I mean..
I will try update more and share more stories to come..
There is a lot of "events" that I missed blogging it about like our 7th anniversarry, ramadhan, the kids and my new job.
For the time being I will be bloghopping around the blogspot and wordpress if I found you. I miss efx2 especially all the alerts function :(
I AM VERY, VERY SAD.
SOMETHING HAPPENED. VERY PERSONAL, HENCE I CANNOT SHARE IT WITH YOU GUYS.
:banjir:
Not much to update.
This thursday is my last day here.
I feel anxious, nervous and at the same time relieved. VERY RELIEVED.
Anxious, nervous as if a kid entering a standard one.
Well I pray very hard that the new company is much more better than the current one.
TRY TO LOOK IN A POSITIVE WAY. AT LEAST THE PAY AND BENEFITS ARE MUCH BETTER. hee hee
and the fact they are ok-ed with my "accident" situation also is a plus good news for me.
I am a bit mellow though today.
My maid is driving me crazy with her crazy attitude.
I think I've had enough of her. I just told her today, to be grateful for whatever things that she has while she is still working for me, stop nagging (oh yes she has the gut to nag to me), or IF I AM REALLY FED UP WITH HER I WILL ASK MY HUSBAND TO SEND HER BACK TO THE AGENT. I had no choice but to blacmail her, because as I SAID she is really driving me up to wall. Up to the point in the car while driving, I ask myself" Why can't she just be a "normal-maid" and give less headache to me ? Well she is suppose to give me a helping hand and not the other way round isnt it.. But sometimes I think I cannot start with the "WHY" Questions.. because I dont know the answer, and worse it will ironically make me questioned back "Why me" which is like "not being grateful enough to Allah" for whatever things that He has given to me.
I guess, that is part of life.
You gain in something, but you'll learnt something in hard way.
Sometimes it hurts you badly, like what I am going through right now, only time will heal me.
I am having trouble to Khusyuk in my Solat Lately.
I Google for translation in prayers and I found this interesting info.
Am sharing it with you guys.
Hopefully it benefits you as much as it does to me :)
Takbiratul-Ihram & Takbir
Allah Maha Besar.
Doa Iftitah
Allah Maha Besar dan segala puji bagi Allah dengan
banyaknya. Maha suci Allah sepanjang pagi dan petang.
Aku hadapkan wajahku bagi Tuhan yang mencipta langit
dan bumi, dengan suasana lurus dan berserah diri dan
aku bukan dari golongan orang musyrik. Sesungguhnya
solatku, ibadatku, hidupku, matiku adalah untuk Allah
Tuhan sekelian alam. Tidak ada sekutu bagiNya dan
kepadaku diperintahkan untuk tidak menyekutukan bagiNya
dan aku dari golongan orang Islam.
Al-Fatihah
Dengan nama Allah yang maha Pemurah lagi maha
Mengasihani. Segala puji bagi Allah, Tuhan semesta
alam. Yang maha pemurah lagi maha mengasihani. Yang
menguasai hari pembalasan. Hanya Engkaulah yang kami
sembah dan hanya kepada Engkau kami mohon pertolongan.
Tunjukilah kami jalan yang lurus. Iaitu jalan
orang-orang yang Engkau kurniakan nikmat kepada mereka,
bukan jalan mereka yang Engkau murkai dan bukan jalan
mereka yang sesat.
Bacaan ketika rukuk
Maha Suci TuhanKu Yang Maha Besar dan dengan segala
puji-pujiannya.
Bacaan ketika bangun dari rukuk
Allah mendengar pujian orang yang memujinya.
Bacaan ketika iktidal
Wahai Tuhan kami, bagi Engkaulah segala pujian.
Bacaan ketika sujud
Maha suci TuhanKu yang Maha Tinggi dan dengan segala
puji-pujiannya.
Bacaan ketika duduk di antara dua sujud
Ya Allah, ampunilah dosaku dan rahmatilah daku,
lindungilah daku, angkatlah darjatku, rezekikan daku,
berilah aku petunjuk, selamatkanlah daku dan
maafkanlah akan daku.
Bacaan ketika Tahiyat Awal
Segala penghormatan yang berkat solat yang baik adalah
untuk Allah. Sejahtera atas engkau wahai Nabi dan
rahmat Allah serta keberkatannya. Sejahtera ke atas
kami dan atas hamba-hamba Allah yang soleh. Aku naik
saksi bahawa tiada Tuhan melainkan Allah dan aku naik
saksi bahawasanya Muhammad itu adalah pesuruh Allah. Ya
Tuhan kami, selawatkanlah ke atas Nabi Muhammad.
Bacaan ketika Tahiyat Akhir
Segala penghormatan yang berkat solat yang baik adalah
untuk Allah. Sejahtera atas engkau wahai Nabi dan
rahmat Allah serta keberkatannya. Sejahtera ke atas
kami dan atas hamba-hamba Allah yang soleh. Aku naik
saksi bahawa tiada Tuhan melainkan Allah dan aku naik
saksi bahawasanya Muhammad itu adalah pesuruh Allah. Ya
Tuhan kami, selawatkanlah ke atas Nabi Muhammad dan ke
atas keluarganya. Sebagaimana Engkau selawatkan ke atas
Ibrahim dan atas keluarga Ibrahim. Berkatilah ke atas
Muhammad dan atas keluarganya sebagaimana Engkau
berkati ke atas Ibrahim dan atas keluarga Ibrahim di
dalam alam ini. Sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Terpuji lagi
Maha Agung.
Doa Qunut
Ya Allah, berilah aku petunjuk sebagaimana orang-orang
yang telah Engkau tunjuki. Sejahterakanlah aku
sebagaimana orang-orang yang telah Engkau sejahterakan.
Pimpinlah aku sebagaimana orang-orang yang telah Engkau
pimpin. Berkatilah hendaknya untukku apa-pa yang telah
Engkau berikan padaku. Jauhkanlah aku daripada segala
kejahatan yang telah Engkau tetapkan. Sesungguhnya
hanya Engkau sahajalah yang menetapkan, dan tidak
sesiapapun yang berkuasa menetapkan sesuatu selain
daripada Engkau. Sesungguhnya tidak terhina orang yang
memperolehi pimpinanaMu. Dan tidak mulia orang-orang
yang Engkau musuhi. Telah memberi berkat Engkau, ya
Tuhan kami dan maha tinggi Engkau. Hanya untuk Engkau
sahajalah segala macam puji terhadap apa-apa yang telah
Engkau tetapkan. Dan aku minta ampun dan bertaubat
kepada Engkau. Dan Allah rahmatilah Muhammad, Nabi yang
ummi dan sejahtera keatas keluarganya dan
sahabat-sahabatnya.
Salam
Sejahtera ke atas kamu berserta rahmat Allah.
It's been quite a while since my last update.
I have loads of story to share so I guess I will summarize it here and hopefully as a reminder to me when updating my blog.
Things that I want to share :-
a) "dress to kill" moments for my little heroes as for the first time makcik (my sister) gave them a tuxedo complete with tie and jacket vest. i will upload pictures of them wearing the tuxedo and tie. Although adam doesnt want to put on his tie. :cool3:
b) picture of danial and adam during our all in one get together. :weehoo:
c) perhaps when the right time has come, i can share some good news regarding LazyD and her hubby
d) and also something that i've learnt during my 2-days motivation training. very insightful indeed :good2:
I dont really have time to update blog these days, not to mention to read my alerts, sorry guys but insyaAllah we are doing fine here (in case you are wondering, if any)
Halu people.
I am still around, hee hee
it's been ages since my last update. Everything is okay, i have loads of story to share but one thing I dont have is Internet Connection.
Ciss !!
The only luxury time I have to update/read blog is at my office which is sometimes not very appropriate to update blog. I have around 400++ alerts to catch up [thanks to you guys]. I have managed to clear out some of the alerts but I still dont have the luxury to comments your entries. Sorry eh but will be visiting again soon :)
Sometimes I am a bit blur when I read the comments too, maybe I ni ketinggalan keretapi kut..
Anyways some random updates :-
Danial
- had a progress meeting with his teacher, results seem okay although need to improve in his writing, homework and Malay. He been going to school for only like 5/6 months ago, so I think he is improving well. From nothing to something and I think he is catching up well.
- went to vitagen factory for danial's school trip. Oh yes, I took leave and went with danial. Danial told me he had such an interesting/fun day and I am glad that I am part of it. That is priceless !!
- number one fan when it comes to Hot Wheels, RC car/motor racing, remote control, robots.
- sanggup bangun awal during weekends just to follow his baba to his office. He wants to play the online Hot Wheels Game.
- likes to play basketball at the basketball court nearby our house. I bought him the soccer ball since danial told him that he wants to play football. But hes been using the ball to play basketball instead. :D
He can't take it if he lose the game. He wants to win ALL the time. :laugh:
Adam
- ni orang kuat yg suka tolak kerusi meja makan all over the house.
- while everybody is having dinner, the backgound sound is adam pushing our 8-seater dining table all over the house. When the chair is stuck at the wall he will get cranky and start pushing other dining chairs. We call him "tiny terror "
- He cannot see his mommy at all i think to him :-
mommy => milk += dukung += separation anxiety mode is on
mommy => phobia bile tengok adam cause this tiny terror seriously cannot let me go up to the limit i can't even go to the toilet in peace. saba jela tau. i know it is a good sign (adores mommy) but i need some ME time to do my business. :laugh:
LazyD
- Am busy planning for a small makan-makan do at our humble abode
- need to touch up the house a bit. Oh no more $$$ to spend.
- glued to Hallmark every night from Mon to Wed at 10 pm to watch Oprah.
Recently there is an advert on Ti@r@ Be@ch Resort WaterP@rk, PD in danial's school magazine. Ever since he saw that advert he has been pestering us on when to go for W@terpark. Adui. pening betul kepala.
To materialised danial's wish his baba took him for day out at A F@mosa WaterWorld, Mel@ka last saturday. We didnt bring him to the Ti@ra because it was fully booked. What do you expect, for last minute plan. hee hee
Anyways, I forgot to bring some pictures to upload here.
On Monday danial's nenek took him to Sunw@y L@agoon. When danial came back the next day he told me, "Sunw@y L@goon is 100 times more amazing than Pasar Malam."
:laugh:
I told him " A Famosa la" and he replied "ooo pa Mosa "
Danial seriously need to improve on his BM.
I think we should declare Thursday&Friday as "Malay-Speaking Day" so that he can improve his BM vocabulary a bit. Well, bilingual start from home right. Will see if it works. Hee hee
The tiny terror aka his baby brother is such a sport too. He loves to play in the water and the moment his maksu put him in his float he was just enjoying himself unlike his big bro who hesitated at first.
This week is the last week of school holiday's break.
We do not have any plans (read : tight budget) to go for cuti-cuti m@laysi@ or overseas during the two weeks break.
Somehow we compensate with day out activities so that the boys are not that bored. Well baby Adam has yet to complain but he is catching up though (learning from his big bro)
Guess my kids still have lots of fun being spoilt by their grandparents
We took leave on Friday and went for bowling. There were five of us, so we took two lanes one for danial and the other one for us. Danial is using ball no 6, we purposely request the barrier along the "longkang" not to be removed so that danial can enjoy his game. He sure did !!!
Tapi yang kelakarnya bile danial dah habis game lepas tu he has to play on our lane muncun je dia sebab bola banyak masuk longkang. Lucky maksu request for cross lane, and danial is back on his jovial mode again :)
Went for lunch at L@ksa Sh@ck. Adam was having a great time. Actually budak ni senang je to please him as long as he knows he is going to have nice food then he is in good mood.
To be continued part 2 their WaterPark Day Out ...